happily ever after

Sad night for this momma. We went to a friend's house tonight for a super FUN game night. We seriously laughed until it hurt, and had some super interesting conversations....... All was going well until one little one came downstairs crying that "Chloe.....waaaa...waaaaaa......hit.......waaaaa..........." that's all I heard so I sent B to find out the rest. Now, I know very well that most issues between 3 and 4 year olds are NOT one sided, but for some reason I feel like Chloe sometimes gets the blame. Now,  I am not saying she is innocent, but I just feel like it's easy for others to be harder on her. So I hear her crying now too, and I go sit with her on the stairs. I just wanted to hug her because she was so upset, so she sits down on my lap and says " I am just a Bad Kid." seriously burying her head in her hands she kept repeating it. I couldn't help it, I was filled with tears. Why does she think she is so bad...... it ripped up my heart. I just felt so bad for her, that she felt she was this bad kid. Blah, so I held her tight and kissed her cheeks. That's all this momma knew how to do in that moment. xoxo